My Oniichan, Keikun, once said this.
Love doesn’t exist. it serves a biological function to bring people together to have sex and perpetuate the species. Attraction is only chemical – a response to pheromones – there is no way that love between a man and a woman will survive for any long period of time.
People divorce whatever was holding them together wa…s only temporary attraction and not real because they now hate each other. They probably just were seeking out sex or they didn’t want to be alone.
You see lots of old married couples. But the real reason why they are together is because they are old and know they will die soon and they don’t want to die alone cause they are scared, and so its easier to pay for stuff.The only people who really stay together are those who are scared to be alone, and those who are too lazy to change their situation. I think love is just a made up scam to populate the human race.
After reading those things, I found that love is just a state that people think ‘it is love’. Whatever we say, it just a name, and that name, stands for ‘scared to be alone and want to be cared’.
But, sex or no, that’s happiness when you have a shoulder to cry on.
A person who stands by your side.
Nothing last forever, so do ‘love’.
People, just need something to believe in, someone to believe in. Sometimes you ‘love’ someone, just because you feel that you being cared.
Just like me.
How can we find that we really are ‘in love’?
Nothing. Just the feeling and we ‘love’ that feeling and don’t want to stop having that feeling.
Well, that sure selfishness.
Just like this.
Say, when you’ve found someone you would commit everything for that one happiness, but he/she shows no interest nor recognize for your sacrifice, will you stay that way, or follow people advice like “find someone who care about you” hurr du…rr…
People being nice in order to receive the same respond…. The smart selfishness.
[Oniichan]
Once a test tell me this. It just a test but it’s so true, especially this :
‘You like to flirt and behave seductively. The opposite sex finds this very attractive, and that’s why you’ll always have admirers hanging off your arms. But how serious are you about choosing someone to be in a relationship with?’
My answer is, when the one I love is not the one who loves me, the answer will be ‘one percent, and maybe, a little upper’.
Until this time, the one I want to stay with just because he ‘loves’ me that much, sarifice for me that much, care for me that much .. I like the feeling when he stays by my side, touch me, smile with me and say such soft sentence. ‘My lady, my princess, my precious, ..’
‘My’, his own person.
But, I can’t leave him. Just because I don’t want to.
That feeling is just like some kind of heroin or ectacsy, once tried, never stop.
I miss you.
So much.
That this feeling is killing me from inside. Little by little.
